It is my job to be a partner.  It is more than a mere job.  When we choose to be born, we pick the person we will live our lives with.  Sometimes we make mistakes and we have to sever the partnership, but that is rare.  We study each of you for a long time before we choose you.  It is the rare individual that can hide their true self from us.  And it is the true self of the person we have decided to be with, not the façade you maintain for your own benefit.