I live in the present, I look to the future, and I try not to let the past rule me too much.  I watch it of course, because I don’t want to relive it because I was too stupid to see the signs you know.  But some people, they live in the past, always looking back.  The past is gone, and healthy people leave it behind them.  You know, we have to remember that sometimes objects in the rearview mirror appear closer than they are.