Some people use skulls and bones as their symbols.  Many in my family did, as did I when I attended Yale.  I was going to do great things in secret for that society.  Then the Shang came.  I found a new symbol to use then, one that fit my new values.  The wolf symbolizes how I stand with my new friends, my new pack.  I am proud to use the name Wolf.  Are you proud to let people see the symbols you live by?  If not, maybe you should change as I did.