I fell in love on my first trip to Alpha Centauri.  Of course it was during The War and I was in the military, so the whole time I was there I was preparing to go to the next battlefield.  But the longer I was there, the less I wanted to leave.  So I did what I’ve always done best all my life.  I cheated.  I broke the rules.  I did what I felt I had to do, damn the rules, full speed ahead.  Even now, I do not regret it.