When I chose to be born, I knew it would be difficult.  My partner was from a bad family.  They thought they were a great family, and that is where the difficulties began.  He recognized the truth.  He had long before he met me.  That is why he volunteered to serve in the first place.  I recognized someone who wanted to make the worlds a better place and chose to help.  It has been a difficult journey.  The worlds do not change easily or quickly.  But we have time.