When cybers are born, we take on many of the preconceptions of our chosen partners.  In the British and American navies for instance, we are almost always female.  Both nations have a long history on the oceans, and their sailors consider their ships a home away from home.  In the old days, sailors were men, and they wanted to come home to a beautiful lady.  And so their ships became their ladies, an ingrained preconception of their culture.  That is why I am a lady.